Alhamdulillah..today is my 22nd birthday!!! Syukur pada Allah S.W.T sb da bg aku rahmat dan izin-Nya utk aku hidup slama 22 tahun ni..syukur sangat2 kpd Allah..sbb da bmacam nikmat n rezeki yg da dberi kpd hamba yg sering alpa ni..*maafkan aku tuhan~
tp..seriously..da mningkat umor ni..harijadi2 ni xdk pa yg spesel..mlaenkan dpt wish2 from my sahabat dunia akhirat..thanks kwn2 yg egt n sudi mndoakan cheq..
bila da mlangkah ke umoq2 yg byk ni..hnya doa2 dan hrapan yg mmpu aku pnjatkan kehadrat Illahi..moga hidup aku akan slalu diberkati-Nya..dmurahkan rezeki..dpemudahkan sgala urusan hidup di dunia dan akhirat..mohon juga agar aku dpt mnjadi anak yg solehah dgn mnjadi seorg wnita yg bjaya dmasa hdapan demi mmbntu kluarga n mama-abah cheq..juga yg plg2 diinginkn ialah..agar dberikan jodoh tbaek yg dpt mnerima sgala kkurangan aku ni..n yg plg pnting "mr.jodoh" tu hopefully sseorang jejaka yg dpt mmbimbing aku sgt2 ke jalan Allah dan mmbantu aku mnjadi seorang muslimah n mukminah yg sjati..*smoga awak yg dtentukan utk saya adalah yg tbaek utk hidup, kluarga dan agama saya..Amin ya rabb al-amin..
Thursday, 9 May 2013
Assalamualaikum..hoi3.. pa habaq???lama no cheq xcontiang tang ni..em..yela..mana idaknye..buat blog ni pon gara2 lecturer yg suroh..hbis sbjek sem tu..maka xbukak da la blog ni ah..tp ttbe hri ni rse nk mncoret plak dkat cni..tp tanpa sbarang ARAH TUJU..hihi..mksudnya..entry ni ditulis tanpa ada specific tajuk atau pon point.. hmmm..cheq la ni dlm dilemma nk cpat bg habeh stdy..otak da jemmm sgtt..xbqapa nk boley msok da bhan2 ilmiah ni..(konon2 dulu nk smbg smpai master..la bachelor pn da merangkak..haha..).. tp serius cheq respect dkat org yg bley stdy tinggi2 smpai jd prof la apa la..kuat btoi smgt depa kn???kn3??CONGRATZ to you~ hiii.. pi claz la ni pn pi takat pi dengaq lecturer ckp tu ckp ni..blik x ulgkaji papun..then, esok nk exam bru la nmpk pgang buku..tu pon jenoh la tenung note tu..hehe..awatla jd lagu ni tataw..dulu diploma steady ja..la ni! hampeh!..Ya Allah...tolongla bg cheq smangat na~..ksian mama abah cheq..cheq nak sgt bjaya utk nk tolg depa... T_T..huhu
AMIN YA RABBAL AL-AMIN..(kwn2 pn doa kan la kt cheq sama na!) tenkiu =)
Assalamualaikum!..Hye guys, harini cheq nk share sikit opinion cheq pasai manusia KACAK dan manusia CANTIK.
Hurm..kate orang..kononnya.."CANTIK ITU SUBJEKTIF"..ape ek yg subjektifnye tu??..agaknya, mungkin subjektif itu dari segi cantiknya RUPA PARAS, cantiknya BUDI BAHASA, cantiknya PAKAIAN dan lain2..(everyone have their own perceptions right??)
Normal lah kan..setiap orang ada persepsi dia yg tertentu terhadap sesuatu KECANTIKAN..kalau x, xkan Allah nak cipta hamba dia dalam berbagai rupa paras, warna kulit dan sebagainya..manusia yang diciptakan tuhan semuanya cantik belaka.."berBEZAnya mereka..dari mereka yang lain..itulah yang membuatkan mereka itu CANTIK!" ..
So!bagi cheq..sbagai manusia biasa di bumi milik Allah ini, perkara
pertama yg cheq selalu salah tentang chantek ini adalah cheq slalu nmpk chantek tu mlalui rupa paras dlu n then bru nmpk cntik yg lain2..yg spatotnya cheq patot nmpk cntek budi bhasa dlu bru nmpk cntik rupa paras..n guess what??cheq ni insan yg slalu khilaf..hii..So, everybody have to respect others opinion right??
CANTIK dan KACAK di mata cheq dari segi RUPA PARAS contonya begini..------>
Ampa suma taw ka apa tu K-POP??zaman la ni..sapa xtaw apa tu K-POP kiqa mmg dia jenih xamek taw lgsg la bab2 industri seni ni..at least, patut la taw apa sbnaqnya mksud short form K-POP tu..
K-POP ni nama pnjang dia KOREAN POP..kira muzik2 yg depa bawak dari KOREA ni, kbanyakannya berentak POP..
Antara hat yang tengah dok HOT la ni contohnya SUPER JUNIOR (SUJU), GIRLS GENERATION (SNSD) dan byk lagi..
Actually, aku ni bkn yg jnih obses abih dengan mendalah K-POP ni..tp oleh krana minat aku yg lebih cnderung ke arah MUZIK..so, aku dengar je mna yg sedap..byk info2 yg aku taw sal K-POP ni, dtg dr adik aku yg boley dkatakan obses dgn K-POP ni..hampir sume menda dia taw sl artis2 K-POP ni..xckup apa yg dia taw, mesti dia akan share dgn aku..aku jnih kakak yg spoting..apa sja benda depa nk share, aku akn try utk dengaq..(sharing is caring la konon)..hihi..Almaklumlah, budak2 sekolah zaman la ni, bla pi skolah bkn takat pi blajaq matematik ka bm ka bi ka tp K-POP pn depa dok blajaq jgak..kadang geram jgak,ada ja msa depa ni dok sembang2 sal K-POP ni..huhu..Tapi..jenoh gak la dok jaga adik aku ni, takot jadi terok plak minat dia
ni..ya la..kita mana bley obses tlebey2 ngan stu bnda 2 kn..takot
terINFLUENCE bnda2 hat yg xelok plak..(betoi dak??)
ni la adik aku yg "SERBATAU" pasai mendalah K-POP ni..
NUR ADILA BINTI LAEDIN (14 TAHUN)
Huhu..apa2 pn adik aku still in control (2 pn sbab ada kak hat yg garang, kalaw dak xtaw la jd lagu mna)..hurmmm..cakap sl K-POP ni, ada satu BAND yg mmang aku minat sgt MUZIK depa..band tu nama dia FT ISLAND..ada 5 orang lam grup 2..band ni DIFFERENT dari grup2 KOREA yg len..apa yg len sal depa ni ialah depa xdalah mnari smata2 atas pentas tu..ada grup member depa yg buley cipta lagu sniri utk band depa n lagu2 depa xdakla sePOP grup2 K-POP yg len..lagu depa kbanyakan lagu2 yg mruntun jiwa..byk lagu2 yg sdey (tp takdak la sampai meleleh mcm lagu2 jiwang kita)..tak mcm lagu K-POP grup2 len, byk mlompat2..(maaf saya kurang gemar hat yg mcm tu)..* tapi xley nk kata la, msing2 ada minat sndiri kn..but sorry, not for me..hihi..(FT ISLAND tetap di hati)..<3
Kat bawah ni serba sikit pasai grup member FT ISLAND ni:-
Date of birth
Position
Name
Choi Jong Hun
March 7, 1990 (age 22)
Leader, Lead Guitar, Keyboard
Lee Hongki
March 2, 1990 (age 22)
Main Vocalist, Visual, Song Writer
Lee Jae Jin
December 17, 1991 (age 21)
Bassist, Vocalist
Song Seung Hyun
August 21, 1992 (age 20)
Guitarist, Rapper
Choi Min Hwan
November 11, 1992 (age 20)
Drummer, Maknae
AND yg pling aku minat antara 5 orang ni ialah si MAMAT cute n hensemLEE JAE JIN..=)
aku boley minat dia ni sbab mse fez tyme aku dengaq sora dia nyanyi yg wat aku minat dia..masa tu xknai g muka2 depa ni..sora dia mmg aku ADORE sgt la..sedap SGT! lpas da taw nama dia apa..baru la dpt taw yg tuan punya badan ni mmg la KACAK..hiihi..AND one thing yg pling aku suka pasai si JAE JIN ni..dia dengan gitar dia..atas pentas dia nmpak COOL sgt dengan guitar dia ni..(yela, die kn BASSIST..xkn nk pegang KEYBOARD pulak..ye dok??)..hihi
ni la antara lagu depa yg sdey yg aku suka n sering dengaq kt henpon aku!
last but not least, I think that I am going to be a good WIFE and a good MOTHER ;-p
I dare to say all those things just because of my mindset is like this
(like what stated in the picture).....
AND PLEASE DO REMEMBER THAT!!!
FIRST!!!
SECOND THING IS.....
AND.....
IN FACT.....
AND ONE MORE THING!!!
AND THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS......
WHAT DO I UNDERSTAND ABOUT SELF ESTEEM???
Hurmm..perkara pertama yg terlintas di kepala when talk about self esteem is.....
SELF CONFIDENCE + SPIRIT = SUCCESSFUL
but this is only what I understand and think about it..
But the true meaning is (according to Pak Cik GoOgLe) :
Self-esteem is how we value ourselves, how we perceive our value to the world and how valuable we think we are to others.
Self-esteem affects our trust in others, our relationships, our work – nearly every part of our lives.
Positive self-esteem gives us the strength and flexibility to take charge of our lives and grow from our mistakes without the fear of rejection.
Following are some outward signs of positive self-esteem:
• Confidence • Self-direction • Non-blaming behavior • An awareness of personal strengths • An ability to make mistakes and learn from them • An ability to accept mistakes from others • Optimism • An ability to solve problems • An independent and cooperative attitude • Feeling comfortable with a wide range of emotions • An ability to trust others • A good sense of personal limitations • Good self-care • The ability to say no
What is low self-esteem?
Low self-esteem is a worse condition that keeps individuals from realizing their full potential.
A person with low self-esteem feels unworthy, incapable, and incompetent.
In fact, because the person with low self-esteem feels so poorly about him or herself, these feelings may actually cause the person’s continued low self-esteem.
Here are some signs of low self-esteem:
• Negative view of life • Perfectionist attitude • Mistrusting others – even those who show signs of affection • Blaming behavior • Fear of taking risks • Feelings of being unloved and unlovable • Dependence – letting others make decisions • Fear of being ridiculed
How can you raise low self-esteem?
Feelings of low self-esteem often build up over a lifetime, and letting go of ingrained feelings and behaviors is not an easy task. It may take time, hard work, and it may require professional counseling.
But there are some simple, positive thinking techniques that can be used to help improve self-esteem. These are called affirmations.
Using affirmations to stop negative self-talk is a simple, positive way to help increase self-esteem.
Affirmations are encouraging messages we can give ourselves every day until they become part of our feelings and beliefs. Affirmations work best when a person is relaxed.
But since people are often upset when they are giving themselves negative self-messages, they may need to counter negative messages with positive ones.
For example, replace the message “I made a stupid mistake, and I am no good at this job,” with “Yes, I made a mistake but I have learned from it, and now I can do a better job.”
Begin each day by looking in the mirror and giving yourself a positive message.
The following affirmations can help you to work toward a positive self-image:
• I respect myself and others • I am lovable and likable • I am confident, and it shows • I care about myself • I am creating loving, healthy relationships • I am a good friend to myself and others • I accept myself just as I am • I look great • Life is good, and I like being a part of it
AND PLEASE
REMEMBER THAT YOU MUST......
p/s: for those who have low self-esteem please BEAR in your mind and PRACTICE all of these tips in your daily life
&
insyAllah, u guys can have a high self-esteem SOON!!!
